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WELCOME to September 4, 2003: Vol. 1, Issue 11
Catch up with my previous issues -
http://www.masterejaculation.com/human-sexuality.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/Sex-the-deepest-freedom.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/the_pleasure_of_sex.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/female_ejaculation.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/premature-ejaculation.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/premature-ejaculation.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/female_orgasm.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/prevent_premature_ejaculation.html
Welcome especially if you have just joined this newsletter.
I am off to Australia again in a few short weeks September 22 - October 25
to assist my friend, Nityama in some great sexuality programs.
You can see the program at www.ozsacredsexuality.com
I am getting some great questions these days.
And some questions about medication and so on for premature ejaculation.
The techniques that I teach for gaining more control do not involve any
kind of medication, laser surgery and so on. If you feel you have some kind
of physical cause please consult a properly qualified medical practitioner.
I do not recommend any kind of medications and/or surgery in relationship
to your sexual experiences.
My ebook is about creating new patterns within your awareness.
Awareness can mean focus or attention.
Awareness always encompasses relaxation, and not tension.
Relaxation and focus.
One of my favorite questions I received recently was . . .
"What is the most effective way to bring a woman to orgasm?"
Great question!
One of the reasons you want to have more control
is so that your partner can enjoy more orgasms right?
Well, the interesting thing is that no-one gives anybody an orgasm.
Unless your partner is open to experiencing an orgasm, it isn't going to happen.
What does that mean?
It means that we are each responsible for experiencing our own orgasm.
Often I have heard stuff like . . . "my partner never gives me an
orgasm!"
Unless your partner is open and willing to surrender to the energy it won't
happen.
What is your role then?
All you can do is support your partner in heading in the direction of orgasm(s).
How do you do that?
First of all by being in touch with yourself.
Feel your body, be present in it.
Feel your pleasure in being with your partner.
Feel what it is like to connect to your partner's energy.
This means developing your own sensual sensitivity, presence and awareness.
It is not about following a mechanical routine.
What worked yesterday probably won't work today.
Feel, see, sense where your partner is asking to be touched.
Watch your partner's body language.
How is the body opening?
Let the body guide you . . .
When you touch, does their body respond by opening more.
Or do they contract and pull away?
Touch with your greatest sensitivity.
Vary your touch - pressure, pace, intensity.
Encompass the whole body.
The human body is one giant erogenous zones.
Don't limit the experience to just going immediately for the genitals.
For a woman, it is very important to wake up her breasts.
Touch her with presence.
This doesn't mean grabbing and squeezing the nipples only.
Explore the whole breast area, with your fingertips . . .
with your whole hand.
Circle around, cup the breasts, gently squeeze.
Ask for feedback.
Do you like this?
What about this?
Lower?
Higher?
More?
Less?
Experiment.
Observe how your partner responds.
It is possible for a woman to first start experiencing high level arousal
through her breasts. Even orgasm in the breasts!
Increase the level of arousal through the breasts and that energy will
automatically overflow into her pussy, without any kind of touch there.
Orgasm and women is such an infinite topic, let's talk more later.
You can practice stepping into the approach described here.
Let go of any outcome other than being present for pleasure.
Open yourself to giving and receiving more pleasure.
Support your partner through your openness to pleasure to experience
more too!
I am doing phone sessions now, guidance, counselling, coaching.
Why?
To assist you in enhancing the quality of your sexual experiences.
This is how it works.
You sign up for 3 hours of sessions. It is $250 per hour.
Pay $750 (via credit card or paypal) for 3 hours and then you can
utilize them as you wish, over the next 12 months.
We would make specific session times . . .
I can guide you through techniques on the phone.
I can assist you in your individual situation whatever that might be.
So if you are interested in phone sessions, just drop me a line.
They do really work well.
Send me more of your questions and comments . . . and your experiences.
Warm regards
Mukee Okan
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