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WELCOME to July 3, 2003: Vol. 1, Issue 7
Catch up with my previous issues -
http://www.masterejaculation.com/human-sexuality.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/Sex-the-deepest-freedom.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/the_pleasure_of_sex.html
http://www.masterejaculation.com/female_ejaculation.html
Greetings and salutations to you all especially if you have just beginning with
your first newsletter.
Yesterday I left out a critical ">" and so here is the real
version.
(Forgive me if you receive this twice!)
It has been quite the whirlwind the last ten days. I have just returned to
Phoenix and super summertime, after an extremely intense and focussed community
ceremonial event in
the high deserts of Arizona. I am totally ecstatic after three and a half days
of singing
my heart out with a group of 28 others - highly recommended for raising one's
sexual lifeforce energy
- 20 hours a day!
And to share that sexual ecstatic loving energy (yesterday) with beloved ones,
aaaaaah. What else is there to do anyway?
I give thanks to the infinite intelligence of the Universe flowing through
everything. I am truly blessed for the opportunity for intimate sexual
connection and to be
able share the joy of life.
Living at the electric orgasmic edge of existence.
I am totally rejuvenated, alive, charged up and ready for the next great
opportunity . . .
I have received a few interesting emails these last couple of days.
"I am interested in your book but don't trust that it will work . . . I
just need
total assurance . . ."
"I have question about PC muscle exercise. Does it help to control
premature
ejaculation or it makes it worse?"
And my favorite one . . .
>Subject: Enjoyed your book!
>Date: Tue, 01 Jul 2003 14:03:35 -0700
>Greetings!
>I bought your ebook yesterday and read it once - wanted to let you know
>that I found it easy to read and that I enjoyed it. I look forward to
>putting the lessons to use.
>Regards, AR
Let's take a look at these comments and questions.
What is the reality here?
What is the key to transforming the habit, the pattern of premature ejaculation?
Can you create a satisfying fulfilling sexual experience for you and your
partner, by practicing some exercises?
How can you possibly change that pattern?
Maybe you have been experiencing premature ejaculation and very low level
orgasms for a long period of time.
Perhaps that is all you have ever experienced. Or it could be a pattern
that has developed relatively recently.
The bottom line is that you know that the feeling of lack of control is
extremelypainful and frustrating.
For you AND for your partner.
And all that information on PC muscle squeezing?
What is that anyway and how can that make a difference?
The key to transforming a limiting habit like coming before you want to, is to
begin creating a different habit. Learn a new way that is different to
what you are doing now.
And practice it.
Practice makes permanent.
If you are not consciously creating good habits, you are unconsciously creating
and maintaining bad habits.
Spectacularly excellent fulfilling sex depends on YOU being open to feeling your
own pleasure and presence in your body.
Feel fully your own pleasure. Be here now!
Right now as you are reading this email, feel the soles of your feet on the
floor. Feel the fullness and strength of your legs, buttocks, back,
shoulder blades, the space between your shoulder blades, the shoulders, arms,
hands, face, head. Your chest, navel, your belly.
Feel the flow, the pulsing of energy circulating through you, continuously.
Notice it more often, no matter what you are doing or where you are.
Feel whatever feeling is in your genitals now. From the very base of your
cock, to the very tip. Appreciate that feeling and appreciate yourself.
From the place of full confident masculine presence give everything to your
partner.
Can I give total assurance that the exercises in my book, The Truth About
Premature Ejaculation work?
Only if you practice the exercises.
For those of you who practice the exercises, you will experience a new attitude,
a new approach, a new perspective in your lovemaking. Individually or with
your partner . . . so a resounding YES! it works.
What about the PC muscle thing? Much has been written about strengthening
the PC, the pubococcygeal, muscles to stop premature ejaculation. The PC muscles
are the sling of muscles at the base of the body. You are sitting on them right
now. These muscles hold in place the entire genital structure. This
includes the circulation system and nervous system. Both are an intricate part
of increasing your level of arousal, level of control, level of sensation.
It is extremely important to have healthy PC muscles for a great sex life.
You can feel more and last longer if they are toned, flexible and oxygenated.
You can gain more control with RELAXATION, rather than creating enormous tension
by "slamming on the brakes" so-to-speak by forcefully contracting the
PC muscles to stop yourself ejaculating.
With a relaxed approach you can stay connected to your pleasurable
sensations. You can become more aware of the most subtle sensations of
pleasure. With the slightest lightest contraction and relaxation of the PC
muscles you can enhance the feelings, without going over the edge. (If you
practice the exercises.)
The exercises are described simply, step-by-step and in detail. The exercises
feel very very good . . .
Send me more of your questions and comments . . . and your experiences.
Warm regards
Mukee Okan
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